Shabbat includes celebrations in the home and the synagogue, and there are many things that families can do together to prepare for it each week and set the mood during its actual celebration. You may wish to try some of the following suggestions with your own family:

  1. Decorate the Shabbat table with fresh flowers or handmade paper decorations to increase the air of festivity.
  2. Put coins in a tzedakah (charity) box each week before Shabbat begins. When the box is full, have the family decide together on an appropriate cause to which the money can be donated. Some like to empty all the small change from their pockets before putting on Shabbat clothes.
  3. Read Shabbat stories and discuss them as a family.
  4. Invite guests to share Shabbat meals with your family. Hospitality has always been an important value in Judaism.
  5. Eat at a leisurely and relaxed pace, and always try to include z'mirot (Shabbat songs) during your meals.
  6. Shabbat book, wine glass, candles
  7. Have someone read a new psalm from the Book of Psalms and briefly discuss it as a family at the beginning of the Friday evening meal.
  8. Use your time on Shabbat afternoon to take a nap or read and study Jewish texts such as Pirkei Avot or Sefer Hahinnukh. You may also wish to take a family walk on Shabbat.
  9. Bake Shabbat challot as a family project.
  10. Play one of the many stimulating and entertaining games that are linked to Shabbat with your family.
Bible Charade game:
Purpose
To re-enact famous expressions and events in the Bible.

Materials Needed
a. Biblical expressions or events related to the Torah or Haftorah portion of the week.
b. A watch with a second hand for timing the charade.

Instructions
a. Divide the players into two teams. Give the first player on team 1 the first charade. That player will have two minutes to present non-verbal clues in order to get his/her team to correctly identify the expression or event.
b. If a correct identification is made, that team receives ten points. If no identification is made within the two-minute time limitation, then one point is awarded to the team for each correctly identified word.
c. Present each team in turn with different Biblical expressions or events. The team with the most points at the end of a designated number of plays wins.

Note: It is suggested that no expression or event used in this game exceed seven words in length.

Here are some sample charades that can be used with the Torah portion of Genesis (chaps. 1-5):
a. Adam was created on the sixth day.
b. On the seventh day God rested.
c. God said: "Let there be light."
d. "Am I my brother's keeper?"
e. Eve gave the apple to Adam. Sacred Celebrations: A Jewish Holiday Handbook






Adapted from Sacred Celebrations: A Jewish Holiday Handbook
By Ronald H. Isaacs and Kerry M. Olitzky
Ktav Publishing House
Hoboken, New Jersey, 1994.
Pages 38-40